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Forget things, he goes on to say, one day, even all the people you love or hate, won’t be in your life or you in theirs (avyaktādīni bhūtāni vyakta-madhyāni bhārata … [Bhagavad Gita 2.28]). So, what are you brooding over? Loss in (and of) life is not a question of if, but when. Whatever we are attached to or hold dear in our hearts, losing it is only a matter of time. It is inevitable.

And, that’s what suffering is: it is not what is happening to us but how we see what is happening to us. It is not the actual situation but our interpretation of it that then governs our feelings. Change the interpretation and feelings change on their own.’

Then ask yourself if you wish to feel differently. If so, begin with the assumption that nothing or no one else is going to change. They are where they always have been, they are exactly where they are supposed to

The gifts of hurt are something like that. They teach us, elevate us, and above all, force us to connect with our highest state of consciousness for answers and solutions. Painful but useful. Inconvenient but inevitable.

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The Big Questions of Life by Om Swami presents key insights from the contemplative tradition. The 4 passages above capture the essential teachings.

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