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delaying and even withholding ejaculation. This is possible because orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct physical processes, though they have long been equated in the West. Although clearly less precise than today’s sex researchers, the ancient Chinese recorded their findings in detail for future generations of sexual and spiritual seekers.1
Without this knowledge and without a clear technique, men are unable to feel the difference between the crescendo of orgasm and the crash of ejaculation.
the orgasmic process of lovemaking. The Multi-Orgasmic Man shows men how to separate orgasm and ejaculation in their own bodies, allowing them to transform the momentary release of ejaculation into countless peaks of whole-body orgasms. In the words of one multi-orgasmic man, “In the normal, everyday sort of ejaculation my pleasure is quickly over with. Not so in multiple orgasms. The pleasure generated here stays with me throughout the day. There seems to be no final peak to this pleasure, either. This practice offers the added bonus of affording extra energy, so I am just never tired. Now I can have as much sex as I want and I can control it rather than have it control me. What more can a man ask for?”
“Basically, I have slept with three women since starting to practice these techniques, and all three have told me that I was their best, literally said it to me while we were in bed: ‘This is the best I have ever had.’ ”
The Taoists were originally a group of seekers in ancient China (around 500 B.C.E.) who were extremely interested in health and spirituality.
Taoist sexuality, also called Sexual Kung Fu, began as a branch of Chinese medicine. (Kung fu literally means “practice,” so Sexual Kung Fu simply means “sexual practice.”)
In the West, Wilhelm Reich, in his controversial book The Function of Orgasm, was the first to argue that orgasm involved the whole body and not just the genitals.2 In the East, the Taoists have long known that orgasm could be a whole-body experience and developed techniques for expanding orgasmic pleasure.
When you become multi-orgasmic, you will never have to worry about how long you can last or how many orgasms your partner has, because you will both be able to have all the orgasms you could ever want.
As one multi-orgasmic man put it, “Once I ejaculate, the pillow looks better than my girlfriend does.”
As one of the world’s greatest trumpet players, he knew how ejaculating decreased his stamina and depleted his art. Unfortunately, like most men, he didn’t know that he could have had sex all he wanted, even have orgasmed, before any gig—as long as he didn’t ejaculate. It might have even improved his “hitting.”
AI Summary
The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia, Douglas Abrams presents key insights from the Taoism tradition. The 10 passages above capture the essential teachings.
Core Themes:
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Key Passages: Highlights 1, 3, and 10 are particularly representative.
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